Why did Ed Miliband and Nick Clegg believe they had to resign after their parties' election defeat?
What they each said in their own way was: 'I take responsibility as my party's leader for this outcome, and therefore I must resign'. Both men acted with dignity. We should respect that. As Malcolm says of the executed Cawdor in the Scottish Play, 'nothing in his life became him like the leaving it' (thanks to a Twitter follower for reminding me of that famous speech in Macbeth). I'm aware as retirement comes down the slipway that leaving an office well is just as important as arriving well and inhabiting it convincingly.
Someone tweeted that it's noble, and gospel-like, to lay down your life (and career) for your friends. That's far better than politicians who cynically lay down their friends for their lives, as Jeremy Thorpe said of Harold Macmillan's Night of the Long Knives (thanks to a comment on this blog for that). I am sure that both men acted out of the best instincts in resigning. And doubtless the widespread British enjoyment of seeing leaders brought low has been satisfied. But my question is, did they have to take this drastic step? Might it not have been better if they had carried on for a while, picked up the pieces, help their party reflect and regroup and begin to find a way forward? Isn't a crisis the real test of leadership?
I was discussing this with a friend who is a seasoned politician and well-versed in the relationships between political leaders and a mercurial public. She said that this is just how it is in British politics. Like football managers and CEOs in business, it's the results that count. If your club is relegated, or your business outturns take a hit, it's not easy to survive as a leader. There is a drive to purge out the old, begin afresh. It's a fact about most revolutions in history. There is a crisis. The leadership are blamed or blame themselves. They have to go, either at their own volition or the enforced will of others.
But the dynamic is more complicated than that. The 'blame' culture we know a lot about infects not just the collective behaviour of a group like a political party, but also its leaders' own sense of self. It isn't necessarily conscious. In such a culture, it's easy for leaders to say to themselves, 'this is my fault' - even if it isn't - because of the projections the group will put on them. I'm aware that when people accuse me of failing in some way, letting the side down, I default to assuming that they must be right about. Then I feel I should take responsibility and blame myself. I am intuitively aware that if I do this, own up and apologise, a kind of catharsis will take place. The situation will be righted again, cleansed of the malign influence that caused it to wobble. Even if I am not to blame!
This is the well-understood phenomenon of scapegoating. A victim is made to 'carry' the wrongdoing of a group and is banished to the wilderness, a far-off safe place where defilement can no longer damage the community. The Old Testament has a lot to say about this: the scapegoat is one of the ways in which the Hebrew people were to find reconciliation healing. It's among the images the New Testament uses to depict Jesus banished to die 'outside the camp' and take our sins with him. The French theologian Rene Girard has written extensively about this ritual 'mimetic' way of dealing with social wrong and disorder (for instance in his book Violence and the Sacred). By loading a victim with 'blame' and driving it out, stability is restored.
Political parties, like all organisations(including the church), can behave like this when under threat from real or imagined disorder in its midst. It's how the far right thinks of immigrants and asylum-seekers. It has to be 'their' fault. The principle is: the social group must recover stability if it is to survive. Find a victim who will take this burden off everybody else. As I say, these forces are often unconscious. They seem to have been at work in the Labour and LibDem parties in the aftermath of the election.
Paradoxically, when a leader says 'it's all my fault', he or she can collude with a kind of self-aggrandisement that a moment's thought will show is misplaced. These days, political parties, like churches, are organisations of consent. You can't be a leader and indulge in command-control and the fantasy of omnipotence, not if you want your party to flourish. Mainstream political parties, including Labour and the Liberal Democrats, are places of keen open debate. It's not, I'm sure, that mistakes weren't made in some policy areas. All I'm saying is the leaders can only go where the organisation is willing for them to. Of course good leadership means expanding horizons, offering new directions of travel. Managing change is difficult and painful. But ultimately, it's the organisation that takes responsibility for it. Especially when it prides itself in believing in democratic values.
So I want to say to Ed and Nick, neither of whom I know personally: don't carry this responsibility on your own. Don't blame yourself. Don't buy into the scapegoat mentality and go out into the wilderness. Don't imagine that you were omnipotent enough to fail by yourself. You did your best for your party, and didn't act out of self-interest. You conducted decent campaigns and as leaders performed credibly. You largely held the trust of those you led. You could have stayed on and been part of the long hard process of reconstruction. You can still contribute to that journey in important ways. I hope you will, for the good of democracy and the political life in our nation.
About Me
- Aquilonius
- Pilgrim, priest and ponderer. European living in North East England. Retired parish priest, theological educator, cathedral precentor and dean.
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Wednesday, 13 May 2015
Saturday, 6 April 2013
The Dean and Di Canio: reflections on an eventful week
The media caravanserai has come and gone. Paolo di Canio has
made a statement clarifying that he is not a fascist. Tomorrow the Black Cats play
away at Chelsea. Meanwhile, I shall have
Sunday services. What has this past week
been all about? Let me try to reflect.
It has not really been about football. As I said in my blog,
I'm not competent to say aything about it despite reading avidly The Secret Footballer which lifts the
lid on what goes on in the beautiful game. But even football cognoscenti take care what they say and where. Like religion at
both its best and its worst, football arouses fierce passions and loyalties. At
their best they inspire and exhilarate and build up community. At their worst
their power can be frighteningly destructive. Think of homophobia and racism:
not a happy story for either.
Some people thought I was indeed transgressing into football
commentary. The comments on my blog speak for themselves. I decided not to delete them – it’s instructive to read them just as they are, even the ugly ones. A few seemed to
think that all that mattered was Sunderland AFC and its football fortunes,
whatever the manager-coach said or did. I hope I made it clear that it mattered to me too. But not at any price. There has to be integrity in public
life: ethics is important. Premier League players and managers
are as visible as you can get. They are influential role models. That’s why PDC had to make it clear that he did
not endorse fascism in any form. It’s still a puzzle to me why he did not do
that when he was asked to at his first press-call. But that’s history.
Others asked how I dared to pronounce on PDC’s personal
beliefs and motives. Now I was careful not to impute anything to his thought-world. What I was concerned about was what he had
publicly said and done. This is all any of us can be judged by. A propos of that, it's been bizarre to have readers speculate about my motives
too. I've been accused of wanting my 15 minutes of fame; someone even said I had
whored myself to the media. This just
shows how wrong people can be when they try to get behind the things we say or
write. I don’t take it amiss when someone disagrees with what I say or do: open
debate is healthy and good. But I do
demur when I am placed on the therapist’s couch and diagnosed from afar on the
basis of a few hundred words in a blog.
A more serious accusation was that the church should stay
out of such matters. This is an old chestnut. Political leaders of every hue, with whom the church strongly disagrees at
times, nowadays acknowledge its proper role in critiquing the life of society. Faith is
about the whole of life, not simply the 'religious' part of it. To put it simplistically,
God cares about the city of Sunderland and the Black Cats just as much as he
cares about its churches and believers. That’s why the church must be in conversation with the affairs of our life in society. It’s as
much God’s business as the church service.
So it’s right at times to raise questions about fairness,
truth-telling and ethics. And this is all I was doing: asking questions (firmly, but courteously
I hope) and inviting a response. I should perhaps not have thought that I could
do this merely as a private individual under the rubric of ‘all views my own’:
inevitably, my public role as dean came into it. But if the office helped
lend weight and secured the desired outcome, I do not think I should regret it.
I did not publish my blog without first taking stock: wisdom lies
as much in choosing when to speak as it does in choosing what to say. It is perilously
easy to abuse the office of a vicar, dean or bishop. I would like to believe that I tried to be responsible in this. Some asked why I chose this particular issue:
why not all the other injustices and atrocities being perpetrated across the
world? Well, we can’t take on every wrong under the sun. But I do have a particular interest when it comes to Sunderland and the North East. So if there is a chance
that by trying to bear witness we might just make some small
difference, isn’t that better than doing nothing? Yes, we risk making mistakes.
But when the day of reckoning comes, I’d rather be accused of having done something, however
flawed it may be. As Burke said, evil triumphs when good people do nothing.
I admit that I was not expecting my blog to be noticed by
anyone other than a few friendly followers on Twitter (and thank you to them and others
for helpful, encouraging comments). But let me end by saying something positive
about the media’s role in all this. It’s
easy to knock the media but the coverage, at least of my
bit of the story, has been exemplary. I have been fairly reported, often quoted
at length. Some columnists even found something to smile at (football and
religion also have in common that they can be seriously short on humour).
Today’s
story is tomorrow’s fish-and-chip wrapping. Maybe I should have heeded the old publishing adage ‘never explain, never apologise’ rather than write a further blog. But there's no prohibition on reflection. As for the coming week, that could prove even more eventful if the Black Cats win
tomorrow. That will be something to celebrate. And why not? Go for it, I say!
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Tuesday, 2 April 2013
An Open Letter to Paolo di Canio
Dear Paulo di Canio
We have never met, and I am the first to admit that I don't know very much about
football. You do, and I respect that. However, I hope you will allow me to say something about your
appointment as manager at Sunderland FC as personally as I can.
My relationship with the Black Cats goes back a long way. I
married into a family of fervent lifelong Sunderland supporters. My wife and I got engaged on Cup Final Day
1973, figuring that if Sunderland won her father would say yes to anything
and if they lost, he would be past caring. All these years we have wanted SAFC to do well. We have been glad when it did, and sad when it didn't. We know how much its football success has meant for the people of
Sunderland and the North East who are rightly proud of your new Club.
But today I am wondering what to do. Your appointment raises
very difficult questions. You see, I am the child of a Jewish war
refugee who got out of Germany and came to Britain just in time. Some of her family and friends perished in the Nazi death camps. So I
find your self-confessed fascism deeply troubling. Fascism was nearly the
undoing of the world. It cost millions of innocent lives. Mussolini, who you say has been deeply misunderstood,
openly colluded with it. You are said to wear a
tattoo DUX which speaks for itself. This all adds up to what I find baffling.
You say that you are not a racist, but it needs great
sophistication to understand how fascism and racism are ultimately
different. I can promise you that this distinction
will be lost on the people of the North East where the British National Party
is finding fertile ground in which to sow the seeds of its pernicious and
poisonous doctrine. You did not
necessarily know this before you came. But I believe that
unless you clearly renounce fascism in all its manifestations, you will be associated
with these toxic far-right tendencies we have seen too much of in this region.
At your press conference today, you had the chance to do
this, to say in so many words that you have been misunderstood (just as you say Mussolini was). You were asked where you stood on fascism,
but declined to give an unambiguous response.
One sentence is all that it would have taken. I’m genuinely perplexed as to why you didn’t take the
opportunity that was handed to you. Maybe your minders told you to stay on-message. But don't you see that it is no answer to plead that this press
call was about football, not politics.
Where a Premier League club is concerned, you can’t ever separate the
two. Politics and high-profile sport, like religion, are about the whole of
life. Football is deeply political. To say otherwise may be
convenient, but it's naïve.
Premier League players and managers are big role-models
for the young. Is fascism what you or Sunderland
FC want our children and teenagers to admire and emulate?
And if this doesn’t trouble you personally, should it not trouble those who appointed you?
The Club now stands to suffer loss of support as well as see
its standing and respect damaged not just in this part of the world but
internationally. Its reputation has been hard won. I am just one of thousands who would be sad to see it squandered.
So there it is. Please tell me how to go on supporting the
Black Cats with a good conscience, even from the sofa, because believe me, I want to. Please tell me that I have misunderstood, or missed some fundamental issue here. I am simply telling you with a heavy heart that it
feels hard at the moment to stay loyal.
Yours sincerely,
Michael Sadgrove
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